I worry.
At times, I worry a lot.
Most of the times, there is no solid reason to my worries.
Just the other day I was worrying, my kids will never know how life was without social networking!
So here is this post, for my future teenage son and daughter, how life used to be when I was a teenager.
- We had real friends, and we used to “ hang out” by cycling or playing in garden or gathering at someone’s place for a game of carom/ludo/snakes and ladder.
- Twitter was just the sound of birds!
- To share photographs of someone’s marriage or function or birthday, we used to click the photo with a camera -> get them printed -> arrange them in photo albums -> show to others when there happens another family gathering! Not as simple as click -> tag -> share.
- One was popular after an achievement in athletics or academics. Not getting nominated for an online contest started by a bunch of people. Or worse: best dressed, best smile, best hair competitions for people to feel better about themselves!
- Sending a mail to someone was a BIG deal. School curriculum taught us how to draft an e-mail and for many years we stuck to that code.
- One e-mail id was enough for one family. Later on (after a few more years) every application/forum/form required an alternate email id.
- Blogging did not exist till late 1990s and till 2009 it was limited to only a small group of people.
- Dating was generally face-to-face, not online.
- Bosses were treated as bosses and Subordinates were treated as subordinates They met socially only on special occasions and family gatherings, not every day over internet after work hours!
- “Time pass” included reading newspapers (not e-newspapers), listening to radio, reading novels (not e-books), gardening etc. Ladies occasionally got together for buying vegetables or sharing recipes while their kids played. Men talked about politics or soccer games by actually physically sitting with other men.
- Acronyms and abbreviations were logical – nt abt nythin v cn mak wid a propr wrd.
- Long distance was tough! Colorful postcards, letters in envelopes and stamps of different countries/states were the trend.
This was really good.. no wonder we lived in reality. I worry about my kids too.. people will start getting married online too in few days i guess.
hahaha…that would be fun to watch I believe 😉 marriages online!!
ah yes, but then we have to question what is really real? Is it real because we see it? Is it real because we can touch it? But then what of dreams?
🙂
ivonne
Reality can’t be explained unless it is compared with Imaginary.. Video games aren’t healthy for kids, cuz grown ups know a 10 yr old CANNOT kill some terrorists or kick goals like Ronaldo. Friends are real if you can really physically cry on their shoulder or pat them on their back, not by writing once a yr on their FB wall “happy bday!!”
Dreams are bridges between imaginary and real 🙂
True… I have enough trouble just trying to keep up with my WordPress… FB has fallen by the wayside, but then I only had it basically for the art and family connections… You are right though…. there is a real problem with kids understanding Reality vs Fantasy…. Good blog!
Thanks Keli.. and yes, I worry about our next generation, its tougher for them to understand the way of live we live or our elders lived..
Hi Sakshi.You really brought back the good old times. I really miss those days when networking meant actually getting together and having a more meaningful time. I don’t really regret the advent of technology in our lives but then, I wish we stay more in the real world than in the virtual world.
Glad we’re on the same note here Gunnu.. our childhood was way more fun than the kids ave these days!
Glad we’re on the same note here Gunnu.. our childhood was way more fun than the kids ave these days!
True, it was real..real childhood.
Wild growth of technology, has certainly numbed the finer sensibilities of humanity, to an unbelievable extent.
So true! The definition of so many words and terms have been altered by this next generation.
Yes, indeed!
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thank you so so much! this feels exhilarating!
So true.. The world we live in. Sigh! By 2050, one can’t even imagine what would become of this world!
Apparently world was ending in 2012 😉
one more month to go, lets see how that works out..
Yea. I heard about that too. And I refuse to go in a month. I have too many things to take care of! 😉 🙂
There were no smileys… 🙂
It was hard to show someone you were sad… cause 😦 wasn’t around… he, he
nice.
which year were you born?
(people didn’t have a chance to ask personal questions like that, but do answer if you can)
I guess you know the answer to your question now 😉
mm-hmm 🙂
So true… makes a lot of sense! 🙂
It does, doesn’t it 😉
So true…!!…:-). LOL. I agree with you
Hehehe 😉